DAY IN THE LIFE : VERY PREGNANT TODDLER MAMA

DAY IN THE LIFE : VERY PREGNANT TODDLER MAMA


Every time I visit my OB he tells me I need to take it easy, and every time I just look at him confused as to what that even means ha. This pregnancy has come with a lot of complications, and I am so grateful that Jackson is still cooking away in my tummy despite all of these challenges. She keeps me on my toes and I know once I have two here it'll be even crazier, I'm so used to it now that I never know what to do with the silence. Here is a typical day spent at home: 

5:30am-7:00am: I wake up and teach, I normally teach all the way through, but the odd time I will have a time slot that didn't book so I may have a 20 min break in between this.

6:30am: Everly has woken up by this point, and Kyle is looking after her while I finish up my classes. He will change her diaper and get her some breakfast and some milk. Her favourite breakfast is usually oatmeal with berries and a banana. 

7:00am: Kyle leaves for work and I'm officially on my own. This is the time where I make my coffee and get set up for the day. I will take a look at the calendar in my agenda and see if there are any appointments or places we need to be so I can plan the day accordingly. 

7:30-8:30am: This in between time I usually put on a movie or some type of video Everly likes watching and I will use this time to eat breakfast for myself, drink coffee, and just take 5 after teaching. 

9:00am-11am: This time in the morning is usually "free play" for her. She likes to play with some of her toys like her train set, kitchen, dolls, and books. We also do our morning basket (an upcoming blog post) and we will go on a walk if the weather isn't bad. We live right outside of a huge trail so it's been nice to get out and explore nature a bit in the morning. While she is playing and occupied, I am cleaning the kitchen, getting dinner prepped and ready, switching over laundry, and tidying up the bedrooms. 

11:30am-12:00pm: At around 11:30 I start prepping her lunch, she usually eats fairly light for lunch since she has more than likely snacked a bit while she was playing. She has been loving tuna sandwiches and I will usually give her a clementine on the side or a yogurt depending on what she chooses. Other lunch options for her is mac n cheese, cheese and crackers with yogurt and some type of fruit, or a deli sandwich with some fruit. 

12:00pm-2:00pm: She very rarely makes it to 2pm for nap, on average she will start waking up around 1:30. But this time period is her nap, and lately she has been laying in our bed for naps because they just end up being better sleeps for her. So I will sit beside her while she naps and I will usually work on some type of project like cross stitch, and watch some videos for background noise. Sometimes if it was a really early morning I will nap with her since it's the only "down" time I have during the day really.

2:00pm-5:00pm: After nap time is the gap I find hardest to fill, so we usually go out and do something. Not every day, but I try most days to get her out of the house. Our favourite places are usually the park (weather permitting), Treetops indoor playground, the library, or just a visit at someone's house. I like to have her burn as much energy off as I can so bedtime isn't too much of a struggle.

5:00pm-5:30pm: Kyle is usually home by now and he usually goes and spends time with her. They usually play with her toys or read books and I get dinner prepped and ready for them while this is happening. 

6:00pm-7:00pm: We have dinner, give Everly a bath, brush her teeth, get her into her pj's, and have some "wind down time." 

7:30pm: Kyle will take Everly and put her down for bed. He stays in there with her until she falls asleep and then he will come out. I can be found tidying up from dinner and just making sure all toys and such are put away from the day.

8:00pm-8:30: I am prepping for my classes that I teach the next day. I sit down and write out the props I need, the lesson I'm teaching so I have an idea of how timing will go, and just making sure everything is good to go first thing. 

9:00pm-10:00pm: Every other night I will hop in the shower, and then hop into bed and put on some type of show or YouTube video and eventually go to bed, preparing to do it all over again!

It may not seem like a lot, but we are pretty much go go go from when we wake up. I enjoy staying busy during the day I always have, it makes me feel so much more productive. On Friday nights I will usually teach all night, and sometimes I will even open up some slots on Saturday nights. So there always seems like something is going on, but I like it that way! I know leaving the house will be even harder once I have two, so I am really enjoying being able to take Everly places and do different things with her while I still can. I may be slow moving lol but we do get where we are going eventually! 

27 WEEK BUMPDATE

27 WEEK BUMPDATE


I am one week away from the third and final trimester! WOW! At first this pregnancy felt like it wasn't progressing at all and that time was just standing still. But now I feel like I blinked and all of a sudden have 12 weeks left. 

I have an update on my short cervix that I wrote about last time, I had gone in during Thanksgiving weekend because I was having bad cramps and tightening. They ended up doing an emergency ultra sound and saw that my cervix is actually right where it should be! An internal ultra sound is much more accurate than the stomach one they initially did, so I felt really relieved because having a short cervix could have caused some major problems. 

He is still moving like crazy. I find his movements feel more like a dragging motion, where as when Everly moved it was more prominent kicks. He still sits really low which sucks for my bladder and also when it comes to walking around. I noticed he prefers the right side of my belly just like Everly did. My sister just recently had her baby boy and seeing him made me so much more excited to see Jackson! 

I should be getting my glucose test done in a few weeks, I really like the drink last time haha, lets hope I still enjoy it! I feel like the results really could go either way, I don't feel like I could have gestational diabetes but I know my eating has not been the best with this little guy. I went through a phase where all I wanted was apple crisp ...

Other than that there really isn't much else to update! We are finally starting to get the room figured out now and really going at it and fixing it all up. I have been selling some items that don't fit the space much anymore since it will be a shared room between him and Everly. We have also started putting together the bassinet and the pack n play. Everly has been enjoying using the pack n play as a crib for her dolls which I don't mind. We also got the car seat in the mail as well and I am so glad I went with a lighter car seat! 

How far along? 27 weeks

Total weight gain? So far I have gained 24lbs. 

Maternity clothes? Yep!

Stretch marks? Yeah, but mostly left over from my pregnancy with Everly.

Sleep? Getting much better! I usually wake up around 2am and toss around for a bit but it hasn't made me feel exhausted in the morning. I have found it hard to sleep on my back now so majority of the night I am on my side. 

Best moment this week? It happened a few weeks ago but my sister having her baby is still the highlight! 

Miss anything? Lately I have been wanting more than one cup of coffee haha.

Movement? Lots! He is most active first thing in the morning and around 8pm at night. 

Food cravings? I have been really enjoying apple crisp, which seems super random but it has been a major craving.

Anything making you feel sick or queasy? Nothing anymore so far!

Showing? Oh yes.

Gender? It's a BOY!

Labor signs? None. I thought maybe Thanksgiving weekend something was happening but everything ended up being fine!

Symptoms? Still feel a lot of pressure because he likes being low. Also I have noticed that my tinnitus (which I got shortly after I found out I was pregnant due to the extra blood flow) has slowed down a bit, I don't notice it nearly as much which is awesome.  

Belly button in or out? It's pretty much on the verge of being an outtie. 

Happy or moody most of the time? A little bit of both I think!

Looking forward to: Getting things started for the holidays!

POSTPARTUM CARE KIT

POSTPARTUM CARE KIT


When I was pregnant with Everly I was so focused on the giving birth and taking care of her part, that I completely overlooked postpartum care. When I came home with her, she had everything she need (and then some) and I had absolutely nothing. Thank goodness for my mom, she was staying with us at the time to help with the transition, and once she found out I didn't have what I needed she ran out to the store to get me everything. If you haven't had a baby, I can't tell you how much the things she got helped me, if you have had a baby then you totally get it. 

I had a vaginal birth with Everly so my postpartum care kit was and is tailored to that experience. With her I also had an episiotomy, and healing was a journey. I was stitched from end to end pretty much and everything I did was so painful. This time around I am making sure I have a list of everything I need and it is going to be home when I am. 

My mom has been asking me what I would like for Christmas and there isn't really anything I need or want. HOWEVER, I had the brilliant idea of getting her to make me a "postpartum stocking" type thing. Is that not the most adulting gift you have ever heard haha. So I have made my Amazon list and here are all the things I'm including (besides the obvious like stool softner and tylenol):

1) Sitz Bath
I used this thing to DEATH when I had Everly. I think having an episiotomy was one of the reasons why it was so valuable in the healing process to me. I used it when I needed some relief and I also used it in between baths and to also clean, because you can't wipe or anything when you have that many stitches. 

2) Witch Hazel Cleansing Pads
There are a few organic brands that carry these cleansing pads, but TUCKS also makes them and I prefer their brand. These are great at giving you that cooling effect "down there" when you need it, especially if you have stitches and they start to heal and get itchy. I found that's when I needed them to most. 

3) Spray Bottle
The hospital usually gives you one of these to go home with, but Frida Baby also makes one called the Mom Washer. This is good because again, you can't wipe really with fresh stitches so they give you this to clean instead. It is an actual lifesaver.

4) Depends Overnight Underwear
This is a new one on the list. I have been watching a bunch of YouTube videos and tons of people recommend using Depends for right after you give birth. I have never thought to use them and it actually sounds like a genius idea. I am not a fan of the mesh type under wear they give you at the hospital so this sounds like a great alternative!

5) Always Overnight Pads
I used these last time with Everly and I actually prefer the Wal Mart brand of overnight pads because they aren't nearly as thick and bulky. I switch between pad sizes once the bleeding has started to subside. 

6) Earth Mama Bottom Spray
I used this last time and really enjoyed it! It's pretty much a TUCKS pad but in liquid form. 

7) Padcicyles 
My friend made me a bunch for after I gave birth and they were AMAZING! So I am totally planning on making some this time around. It's basically a giant ice pack for down there haha, and it is heaven when you need it the most. 

I think for now that is pretty much it! Doesn't child birth sound like so much fun?! The recovery depending on how your labour goes can be quick or it can be long and difficult. I felt like I would never be the same again, but day by day you get a little bit better and stronger and you do heal and become human again. I definitely recommend stocking up on some of these items if you are expecting, and if you have a friend who is due around Christmas or just after like I am, a great gift idea would be a postpartum stocking haha. 

Is there anything I missed or something you couldn't live without?! Let me know! Those who have had C-Sections, is there a must have on your list?